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Child suffered mentally through domestic abuse on mother by ex father

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 05/10/2020 - 14:14

Have separated from partner of 15years, due to domestic abuse towards myself and our children. Therefore he has been charged with this, he is not allowed to have any contact with myself and the children at all. The abuse also involved his family. However not long ago his parent was diagnosed with a terminal illness and is requesting to see the grandchildren, their father has said he will not be present however …

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Conceiving during Muharram/Safar

Submitted by Anonymous on Thu, 06/08/2020 - 10:46

Are there any references against trying to conceive in the months of Muharram and Safar or is this permissible?

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My father has always been abusive, verbally and physically, How do I fix my Father? .

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 21/06/2020 - 22:12

I’m 26, the eldest of 4 and only girl.My father has always been abusive, verbally and physically. He has been abusive to everyone, his parents, his siblings, his wife, his kids, friends, neighbours, acquaintances etc.We were told someone had done taweez on him and us. We found the taweez at home too, so there is truth in this.My question is, how do I fix my father? I’m in such a desperate …

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My 7 year old Kids misbehavior

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 29/04/2020 - 11:21

My kid is very naughty and he misbehave alot also uses abusive language he is 7 and disobedient we have used every method to make him understand love scolding and punishment nothing works of everything is going according to his will he is fine but if we want something against his will he misbehave he hits himself and he even says that he wants to die

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Can I pray home and not go masjid due to Corona virus.

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 03/03/2020 - 15:37

Asalam AlaikumThere are a couple cases of the coronavirus in my country(belgium) and spreading. I have heard from sheikhs if u are afraid u can pray at home instead of the mosque. I am not afraid of the virus but my mother is and she doesn’t want me to pray at the masjid anymore and go outside in general (only for college if lesson is obligatory). Should i be obediënt to my …

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Toxic relationship with parent

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 12/01/2020 - 21:05

Salam, Our maulanas are always talking about how to respect your parents and be nice to them and listen to them. But they won’t ever talk about us “the children” and how parents should treat us? There is not a single lecture on how to deal with a toxic parent/s. My mom does this thing where she will go to my brother and talk bad about me and my sister. She will …

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Am I allowed to leave my parents?

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 23/12/2019 - 14:24

Asalamalaikum,I am married now and have children. I currently live with my parents; however, my wife would like us to separate. I do agree with her as it would be nice to have our own privacy and independence. But my parents although not elderly, have their ailments. My mother for example has chronic back pain so has an expectation of my wife to take over all duties such as cooking and cleaning …

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Parents

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 24/11/2019 - 00:05

AssalaamuAlaikum. I’m from India. My mother, a gem of a woman, passed away in May 2018. She was the only person in my family whom I could find a connect with. She used to encourage me to perform Islamic acts and become better muslim, at the same time balancing the duniya. Unfortunately, I don’t have the same relationship with my father. We seldom spoke. I rarely saw him pray. He became somewhat …

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My Niece is 10 and has a horrible anxiety or fear of sleep

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 24/09/2019 - 20:14

My niece is 10 and her fear of sleep has put a strain on her parents she is always scared to fall asleep and be left on her own. Even if her siblings are with her in the room and they fall asleep before her she starts crying. If she wakes to find everyone else asleep she will cry. As soon as it hits bed time she will become so nervous she …

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My mother calls me a whore

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 08/09/2019 - 08:52

Salam… My mother is verbally abusive towards me. She most of the time is so loud that my relatives who live right next to our home listen to her. She calls me name like khoti. Kanjri (whore) and basterd …. I am 27 years old and younger among all my siblings. I feel so humiliated… So disgusted. I tried to tell her calmly that your action hurt me emotionally. But she says …

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